I rarely get super personal here but since I’ve been gone longer than usual I thought an explanation was in order.
I got engaged in Paris!
The plan was to go to London and spend about five days there before heading to Newcastle, England where we would spend Christmas with David’s family. On our first night in London, David surprised me with a trip to Paris, and two days later we got engaged overlooking the Eiffel Tower.
Almost five years ago David and I met at work. He had just moved to NYC from London. He was nice, we shared similar interests and he was easy to talk to.
But when he asked me on an impromptu date one snowy day in March, I was hesitant to go. Hurt from past relationships and emotionally paralyzed, I didn’t think I was lovable or destined to find a partner.
I was learning how to be happy without a man and finally getting the hang of it.
I told him to call me later that evening, making a deal with myself that if he actually called (something, in my experience, men rarely did anymore), I would meet him that night.
He called and I went.
Day after day, week after week, David continued to ask me out. With an open heart, I promised myself that if he kept showing up for me, I would show up for him.
And just like that I found the love of my life, the one who would make me laugh every single day and love me unconditionally.
Our love didn’t come when or how I had ever planned, but it couldn’t have been more perfect.
We’re still celebrating with family this week, but I’ll be back to regular blogging next week. And expect to see a few wedding-related health and wellness tips in the future.
If you’re on Pinterest and interested in all things bridal, follow my Pinterest board, Blushing Bride.
Best wishes for a healthy, happy and prosperous New Year!
MeganLyons says
Congratulations, Marissa!ย You deserve all the happiness in the world!!ย This story gave me goosebumps ๐
Marissa says
Thanks, Megan!
Jessica Newell says
Congratulations Marissa – have an amazing new years!
Elizabeth Samuel says
Congrats!!
Julie Zawislak says
What an amazing way to kick-off 2014! Enjoy this bliss!
Jennifer Donogh says
So sweet – what an amazing way to start the new year!
Kim Redmon says
Congratulations to you.
Marissa Vicario says
*thank you
Marissa Vicario says
That’s my you for the sweet comments! A very happy new year to you all!! Xx
April Dee says
My most favorite post of 2013!!! Congrats!!! Happy New Year!!!
Ken Moll says
Marissa – I am so happy for you and David!!! You are so wonderful and adorable. David – I rarely post – great, great beginning you created for the both of you and my wife and I look forward to meeting you both! Congratulations!!!! Great day!
Steff W says
Great! Thanks for sharing and so happy for you Marissa ๐ my takeaway……..”I promised myself that if he kept showing up for me, I would show up for him. And just like that I found the love of my life, the one who would make me laugh every single day and love me unconditionally.”
Adriana Carrillo says
Congratulations! So happy for you both!
Dana Zukanovich says
Love!! Congratulations again! I couldn’t be happier for you!
Christina Fleming says
Congrats!!
Alexandra Spirer says
Great story! Happy New Year to you! Hope 2014 is wonderful for you both!